Parenthood

Chaturanga Hugasana

Chaturanga Hugasana

I'm a hugger. I love hugs, always have. But I've recently discovered a new kind of hug that has every other kind of hug beat. If I were to give it a Sanskrit name, like a yoga pose, I suppose it would be called the Chaturanga Hugasana ("four limbed hug pose"). Do not confuse this with the very different Chaturanga Dandasana. Chaturanga Hugasana is most often practiced by the very young, though if the hug-ee is of strong body, it certainly will go a long way to keep the hug-or young at heart. …Read more
{this moment}

{this moment}

{this moment} - A Friday ritual, inspired by Soule Mama. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.Read more

“You’re Doing What?” Series Links

"You're Doing What?" I’ve been asked this question quite a few times after sharing something about our parenting choices. Derek and I admit, we have made parenting choices that are different from those of our family and friends, from most of society for that matter, but we are at peace. We are confident. I’m hopeful that this series will inspire confidence in the face of your own “You’re Doing What?” questions. You’re Doing What? The Introduction You’re Doing What? The Cosleeping Edition You’re Doing What? The Child-Led Weaning Edition You’re Doing What? The…Read more
The Strategy of Discipline

The Strategy of Discipline

My approach to discipline can be summed up in two sentences. Children (actually everyone) are in an unending pursuit of the satisfaction of their deepest needs. As a parent, I'm interested in influencing the strategies employed in that pursuit. That may be only two sentences, but man, is that a BIG job! It's far from easy. It's slow work that requires patience and focus. It’s a job that requires me to quiet many of the voices that sound-off in my head about what discipline or age appropriate behavior should look like. It’s work…Read more
{this moment}

{this moment}

{this moment} - A Friday ritual, inspired by Soule Mama. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.Read more