The Strategy of Discipline

The Strategy of Discipline

My approach to discipline can be summed up in two sentences. Children (actually everyone) are in an unending pursuit of the satisfaction of their deepest needs. As a parent, I'm interested in influencing the strategies employed in that pursuit. That may be only two sentences, but man, is that a BIG job! It's far from easy. It's slow work that requires patience and focus. It’s a job that requires me to quiet many of the voices that sound-off in my head about what discipline or age appropriate behavior should look like. It’s work…Read more
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{this moment} - A Friday ritual, inspired by Soule Mama. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.Read more
Everyone is Needy!

Everyone is Needy!

Years ago, I was at a weeklong yoga training with Judith Lasater. We spent our days talking ailments, anatomy, alignment and asana. We also had the option of bonus, evening training sessions in Nonviolent Communication ("NVC"). While I didn't know much about NVC, I had heard Judith endorse it, so I signed up. "What Are You Feeling?" In the first session, we were handed a list of feelings and asked to recall a recent real-life conflict. I still remember the situation I used for the exercise. It was a pretty typical work problem - I was frustrated…Read more
{this moment}

{this moment}

{this moment} - A Friday ritual, inspired by Soule Mama. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.Read more
{this moment}

{this moment}

{this moment} - A Friday ritual, inspired by Soule Mama. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. If you're inspired to do the same, leave a link to your 'moment' in the comments for all to find and see.Read more